A layer on top of the app you already use
The questions dating apps don't ask
One deep compatibility questionnaire, filled out once and reused with everyone you meet. Answers stay hidden by default — you see where you align, not what they said.
54 questions across 6 areas, including the contingencies people usually discover years in.
One questionnaire, not one per person
You answer it once. It travels with you to every potential match, rather than being redone for each.
Mutual or it doesn't count
An alignment registers only if each of you finds the other's answer acceptable. Acceptance in one direction is reported as exactly that.
No compatibility score
No percentage, no ranking. A list of where you actually align, ordered by how much each area matters to the two of you.
Hidden until you say otherwise
Every answer is private by default, one flag at a time. A serious mismatch is still flagged — the area is named, the answers aren't.
What it covers
- Lifestyle & trajectory
- Kids, career, where you live, and how fast any of it happens.
- Medical contingency
- Illness, infertility, disability, and mental health crises — the things nobody plans for.
- Financial contingency
- Income gaps, job loss, debt, risk, and who you are both quietly supporting.
- Fidelity & structure
- Not just monogamy — where exactly the line sits, and what happens when it's crossed.
- Values under pressure
- What you would do if a partner did something you had to decide about.
- Family obligation & estate
- Aging parents, caregiving, prenups, inheritance, and how assets split if it ends.